PearList has no server. Your household's lists live only on the phones of the people you share them with. When those phones need to share a change, they talk to each other directly, encrypted end to end. No company, including PeerLoom, can read your lists. On the rare networks where two phones cannot reach each other directly, the connection is passed along by a relay we run, which carries the same scrambled data and cannot read a byte of it either.
In most apps, your phone talks to a central server and the server talks to other phones. The server reads everything. In a peer to peer app, two phones talk directly to each other. There is no server in the middle.
Think of email versus a handwritten letter. Email routes through several companies that could read it. A letter goes from your hand to your recipient's hand. PearList works more like the letter.
The obvious question: if there is no server, how do the phones in your household know how to reach each other?
PearList uses a distributed hash table, or DHT, the same technology that powers BitTorrent. A DHT is a phone book that no one company owns. It is spread across thousands of participating devices around the world. When your group's devices come online, they each ask the DHT "has anyone seen the rest of my group?" and the DHT helps them connect.
Crucially, the DHT only helps devices find each other. It never sees the data they exchange.
Sometimes a direct connection cannot be made at all. A few home routers and mobile carriers sit in a configuration where two phones cannot reach each other however many times they try. For those cases PearList can route the connection through a relay that PeerLoom runs. It carries the same encrypted traffic the phones would have exchanged directly, it cannot read any of it, it stores nothing and you can turn it off. It is only tried after a direct connection has already failed. Details: The PeerLoom relay.
PearList stores the following locally on each device in your group:
All of it is stored on the group's devices themselves. None of it is uploaded to PeerLoom or any third party.
Two things protect the data flowing between your devices:
Most shared-list apps ask you to create an account and upload your lists to the company's servers. That model has real costs:
PearList trades the convenience of a cloud backend for privacy and independence. There is no account to hack, no server to leak, no subscription to cancel and no company to shut down.
Peer to peer is not magic. Honest tradeoffs:
These are deliberate choices. A cloud backend would solve all three at the cost of everything the peer to peer design protects.
You do not have to take our word for any of this. PearList is fully open source. The complete code, including the sync layer and the encryption code, is published at github.com/peerloomllc/pearlist.